Anonymous asked: aw you and james are so cute together! YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL i a jealous :( how long have you and james been together?what is he like?xxxx

Thanks! We’ve been together for two and a half years and he is the best. He’s very sweet and intelligent so you can always have good conversations with him, he’s funny but sometimes very moody and negative about things but I understand and know how to deal with it. He does a lot for me - he cooks for me every day and he’s always driving me around and he always compliments me and he tells me he wants to be with me always. He is addicted to fiddling around on his iPad, Nintendo DS and his guitar. He loves Jamie Oliver, I think he idolizes him more than Kurt Cobain, haha. He’s always on time and he loves Bruce Springsteen as much as I do. He’s slightly temperamental sometimes but he hates arguing with people. And he literally has the softest skin in the world, except for his hands. He doesn’t let people in very easily and that’s why I feel very lucky to be the person he chooses to hang out with pretty much 24/7. He is my best friend! I’ll shut up now. 

3:04 pm  •  3 February 2012

Anonymous asked: can you list the makeup you used in the video? i couldn't see some of them :( x

Liquid eyeliner - Collection 2000
Foundation - Estee Double Wear
Blusher - Bourjois (the little round pink pot) 
Mascara - Rimmel Volume Flash, curved brush. (I have sworn by this mascara since I was fourteen)
Eyeshadow pallet - Barry M 
Lip liner - Rimmel (buy a proper pencil liner, I don’t like the ones that you twist and don’t have to sharpen)
White eyeliner - Barry M
Brushes - MAC 
Black eyeliner - Doesn’t really matter, even Sporty Girl (if that’s the right name) do an alright eyeliner
Primer - MAC

xo

2:26 pm  •  1 February 2012

Anonymous asked: gah. you are so beautiful... i think you're more beautiful than megan fox. honestly. i'm glad you live in london and not anywhere close to me where we could accidentally be at the same place at the same time and you could make me be even uglier in comparison to you.

That is incredibly flattering but more so quite sad (not sad in a pathetic way, I just mean sad sad because no-one should feel like that, especially not over a nobody like me).

I am sure you are beautiful in your own ways, everyone is. You should try to see it.

And there is no way on EARTH I am more beautiful than Megan Fox, she is actual perfection and I have plenty of flaws. But thank you for the compliment anyway, I appreciate it. 

6:28 pm  •  10 January 2012

1) Incorrect and incorrect, especially the first statement. If you’ve ever met my sister you would know that. x

2) I do, maybe once a week. Although I wear them a lot when I take pictures so it looks like I wear them a lot more. And thank you! x

3) No, haha. I wish.

4) I love Cam and Mitch too!!! The characters on that programme are absolute genius. I shall search for that video too, thanks for the suggestion! 

5) Why should I do that for someone who won’t even show me who they are! I’ve posted one somewhere before though if you’re that interested and want to look for that x

6) Awh :) and not really, I’ve used Pearl Drops toothpaste but I don’t think it worked. Try it yourself though if you like. :) x 

5:50 pm  •  8 January 2012

Anonymous asked: How and when did you and james meet? :)

I don’t want to sound rude but someone already asked me how we met yesterday and I posted a link to something I wrote about that before (a rather long essay) so if you like you can just find that on my page.

But the first time we actually saw eachother was on Halloween in 2008. And I recognised him and he recognised me and I noticed he kept looking at me but he never came up to me and then the next day he messaged me on Myspace (lul) and told me how he wanted to ask for my number the night before because he thought I looked “beautiful” (hehe) but that he got too scared because he thought he looked like a weirdo (he was all covered in fake blood) and his friend Lee said that he had “no chance, mate”, which is just funny. For obvious reasons. x

3:19 pm  •  6 January 2012

Anonymous asked: You and James are the cutest couple ever! It's so cute the way you talk about him and how much you love him. How long have you been together and how did you first meet?xxx

Awh, thank you ^_^ we have been together for almost two and a half years and if you click here you can read something I wrote about how we met. I always repost this one post when people ask but it explains everything :) xoxo

4:56 pm  •  5 January 2012

Anonymous asked: If you could visit any city in the world, what would it be?

I really can’t answer that, it’s much too hard. Although lately I’ve been thinking about Dublin or Glasgow a lot, I really want to go there. Or to Stockholm. I’m not really that interested in cities though, I prefer more rural areas :) (and that’s not saying I wouldn’t love to travel to lots of cities!)

5:43 pm  •  19 December 2011

Anonymous asked: (if anon didnt work post privately please) I sent you an ask a few weeks ago saying that I was scared to take my clothes off in front of my boyfriend because of the scars on my legs even though he's the sweetest boy ever and you told me to go for it because he sounded like a good guy and on friday I finally did it and I'm so glad because if you hadn't encouraged me I probably wouldn't and he kept kissing my scars and telling me I was beautiful so thanks for the enouragement :) xx

That sounds amazing, he is wonderful. I’m really happy for you! <3

4:54 pm  •  18 December 2011

Anonymous asked: What things have you done/presents have you bought James for past Christmases/birthdays? I want to take inspiration from you when it comes to treating my boyfriend nicely ^_^

Awwh that’s flattering :) in the past I’ve bought him things like band shirts (Daniel Johnston, Johnny Cash, The Smiths, Placebo for example), a pair of Vans, I’ve made him a scrapbook with pictures and writing, I got him a pretty notebook, lots of books (I bought him Bukowski once and he ended up becoming obsessed with him so I guess that was an excellent choice on my behalf) and DVD’s :) that’s pretty much all I can remember at the top of my head! Good luck with finding your boyfriend something :) xoxo

5:07 pm  •  12 December 2011

Anonymous asked: Hi! I was hoping you could give me a little advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and before we started dating he was with this girl for over a year. They remained close afterward and even when we started dating. But it bothered me that they were old lovers and so close and he saw that so he stopped talking to her, but he still mentions her from time to time. I feel so guilty that it ended for them and I love him but I cant stop thinking about them together. Help?! :/

The fact that he stopped talking to her for you says a lot about him, and I respect that a lot. The fact that he still mentions her from time to time probably just means that he’s simply fond of her as a person, and there’s nothing wrong with that really. He still chose you over her, and you guys have been together for quite a while now so I really think that you shouldn’t worry :) if you’re feeling really sad about it just talk to him and see what he has to say :) 

1:49 pm  •  6 December 2011

foolsgoldd asked: I completely agree! I'm in a long term relationship and I'm secure enough in my relationship not to stress over my boyfriend finding other girls attravtive but I must admit I would be bothered if he liked a photo of another half naked girl: if he knew her. People can argue then men watch porn etc but I think that's different. That's just male impulse. But to like a photo of a half naked girl that they actually know is entirely different in my opinion.

100% agree with you there - I have no problem with porn/dirty magazines and stuff like that. It’s just fantasy. 

But then liking pictures of a girl that you know, or could potentially know one day is entirely different. In my opinion. :) 

1:39 pm  •  6 December 2011

Anonymous asked: everytime my boyfriend goes out, him being the only one in a relationship within his group of friends, he'll tell me about his night and every single time there are all these random girls he talks to, i feel upset/angry even though i know he'll never do anything. when i go out i don't talk to every boy i see, so how can he do it? i just don't know if i'm wrong in feeling upset/angry? sorry for rambling on xo

I don’t think you’re wrong for feeling upset/angry! If something is making you feel that way then you guys should definitely have a chat about it. 

To be honest though, when boys come up to me when I’m out and they seem nice/not pervy I will usually talk to them and I don’t really see anything wrong with it because I know I’d never, ever cheat. Not every person you meet in a club is someone that you want to get with/wants to get with you, you could just have friendly “banter” (god I hate that word, couldn’t think of anything better) and in my opinion that always makes nights out more fun, whether it’s with girls or boys. I’ve met boys on nights out before and they are my friends now - so I guess that’s proof to back up what I said. 

The reason why I don’t think it’s such a bad thing is because you know he wouldn’t ever do anything, and I’m guessing that’s because he’s never done anything in the past. Now if your boyfriend was someone who was one of those serial “Facebook-picture-likers” or had cheated on you before, I wouldn’t trust him at all if he was doing that. So I guess it all just depends. But like I said, if it’s upsetting you then he should still consider stopping it. I know that my boyfriend trusts me and doesn’t really care if I just talk to people on a night out, but if it made him feel uncomfortable/upset then I’d definitely take that into consideration. xo 

1:32 pm  •  6 December 2011

thelastsupperafterparty asked: there are some girls that take it too far though, I've had exs go mental over me commenting on my female best friend's photo saying "looking good" and then threaten to break up with me over it. I understand if it's like "i'd smash your back doors in" cause thats overtly sexual but just a compliment to friend doesn't have to have a flirtatious meaning

I can understand that too. There are obviously boundaries.

There’s a huge difference between saying something like that on a casual picture of a girl mate and liking/complimenting a half naked/suggestive picture of a girl who might not even be anything near a friend.  

I do think it’s just as bad though, to comment on a girl mates picture (just any picture) saying something like “gorgeous” or “beautiful” - because it would still make your girlfriend insecure and it’s just a bit inappropriate. Although just saying “you look good” or something like that every now and then to a friend, I don’t see anything wrong with that. But if you were to do that quite a lot, it would still look suspicious to your girlfriend and I just don’t really see why it’s necessary to let your friend know they “look good” all the time. Not saying that’s what you do, just putting my point out there :) x 

1:21 pm  •  6 December 2011

lucyyyy182 asked: my boyfriend does it ALL the time, there was one picture where this girl took of herself in mega long socks and hotpants and wrote 'like this if you like fucking with these socks on' and he liked it. i was so angry and he couldnt even understand why, hes made me delete my faceb numerous amount of times as well :L im so glad you think that and it wasnt just me over reacting!

Ugh it actually makes me angry just reading that! I hate how people get accused of over reacting for being upset about those things. Just because it’s done over the internet doesn’t make it any less disloyal. He shouldn’t be doing it at all since he knows you’re not happy with it, and he should especially not accuse you of over reacting because it’s a disrespectful thing to do in the first place. You should never feel like you’re in the wrong here, I’m completely backing you on this! xo 

1:05 pm  •  6 December 2011